Transformation can be instant

How do you see things?

Healing takes time, sure—but transformation? That can happen in an instant.

What do I mean by that? It’s all about how I choose to see things.

At any moment, I can shift my perspective. I can choose to look at my circumstances differently and respond instead of reacting. Just like that—transformation.

I can trade a victim mentality or learned helplessness for a mindset of victory. Another shift, another transformation.

The way I see it, it’s my choice. I don’t have to live by roles handed down through generations or defined by relationships.

I get to decide. And I choose victory.

Photo by my beautiful angel sister, Marilyn Boden